Kenyan media personality Grace Msalame is standing at the doorstep of a significant milestone—her 39th birthday.
As she prepares to bid farewell to her 30s, the mother of three is taking a heartfelt look back at the decade that shaped her into the woman she is today.
What started as a simple list of “30 Life Lessons” soon evolved into a profound reflection on faith, purpose, and surrender.
For Grace Msalame, this decade wasn’t just about accomplishments—it was about truly knowing God and embracing His purpose for her life.
“I had a moment recently when I realized that I will be turning 39 this year. I started wondering if I am really where I thought I would be.
Adding, “But as I went through my reflections, I saw that this decade—which I was so excited about in my twenties—was actually the decade where I would truly know God for myself. And by knowing Him, I would understand what He has called me to.”
With wisdom gained through experience, Grace shares 10 transformative lessons that have guided her through life’s highs and lows:
1. Speak Up!
“As women, we often hesitate to say what we really want or need to say out of fear of not being heard. But speak up anyway—your voice matters.”
2. Fear Not!
“Fear holds us back from stepping into our purpose. But remember, you have not been given a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind. Faith and fear cannot coexist—you must drop one to embrace the other.”
3. It’s Okay to Make Mistakes
“Mistakes are not meant to shame you; they are meant to teach you. Only the enemy brings condemnation. Learn, grow, and move forward.”
4. Forgive, and Do It Quickly
“Whether it’s your child, your spouse, or even a stranger on social media—let go. Forgiveness isn’t for them, it’s for you. Release the burden and move forward.”
5. Laugh!
“Life has enough challenges on its own—choose joy. True joy comes from Christ, and nothing in this world can take it away.”
6. Move Your Body
“Your body will either reward you or punish you as you age—take care of it. Walk, swim, dance—just keep moving!”
7. Give Generously
“Give with love, not for recognition. When you give from the heart, blessings will follow.”
8. Surrender Is Not an Option—It’s a Necessity
“No matter how much we plan, we cannot control everything. Let go, trust God, and allow Him to lead the way.”
9. Christ Finished It All at the Cross
“Whatever you’re facing—sickness, struggles, uncertainties—His victory is already yours. Stand on that truth.”
10. When You Fall, Get Up and Keep Going
“A righteous person falls seven times but rises again. Failure is not final. Dust yourself off and keep moving forward.”
As Grace steps into her final year of her 30s, her reflections serve as a powerful reminder that life is about growth, faith, and embracing every lesson along the way.
Which of these lessons resonates most with you? Let’s celebrate Grace’s journey together!
