Well-known media personality Joyce Gituro recently opened up about her personal life in an honest conversation with her son, Jakes Nyanjom, during an interview with Massawe Japanni on January 20.
The discussion touched on her past relationships, future hopes, and the qualities she values in a potential partner.
Reflecting on Her Failed Marriage
Joyce, who was previously married to Mr. Gituro, is a proud mother of three: two sons and a daughter. Despite her marriage ending in divorce, Joyce has focused on raising her children and ensuring they receive a top-quality education.
Speaking candidly about the breakdown of her marriage, Joyce admitted that a lack of communication played a major role in its collapse.
“Nilivunja mawasiliano… Nilimnyamazia badala ya kuengange ndio tupate suluhisho,” she confessed, reflecting on how she withdrew from her ex-husband and didn’t engage with him, a decision she now regrets.
Adding, “I didn’t make baba ya watoto wangu my friend… Nilishikwa na kiburi na nikakataa kudiscuss anything.”
Despite attempts to reconcile, Joyce said the damage was too deep to repair. “she shared.
“You know women, we check out emotionally mapema sana. There was nothing I could do to hear from him. I was tired, and he was also tired.”
Today, Joyce and her ex-husband maintain a cordial relationship for the sake of their children, communicating occasionally on parenting matters.
Jakes Nyanjom’s Qualities for a Potential Partner for His Mum
While Joyce has been single for nearly 15 years, she remains open to finding love again. Her son Jakes, however, has very clear expectations for any man pursuing his mother. He outlined four qualities he believes are essential:
- Ambition – “My mum has set the bar. He should be doing better than her, two times over,” Jakes said.
- Patience – “She’s a hard cookie, but itafika point mtaelwenana.”
- Love and Care – “He should love her a lot and take her out.”
- Faith – “Someone who believes in God.”
Joyce’s Ideal Partner
Echoing her son’s views, Joyce revealed her own preferences for a future partner. She’s seeking someone between the ages of 48 and 58.
“Sitaki mtu mzee sana… Lakini pia staki vijana,” she said, noting that she wants someone financially stable, loving, and ready to travel.
As she approaches her 53rd birthday in June 2025, Joyce is optimistic about finding a partner who complements her vibrant lifestyle and personality.
