Renowned Pastor and Motivational Speaker Robert Burale has once again stirred deep conversations, this time about the fragile heart of love and relationships — just days after his ex-wife’s revelations about their marriage.
Speaking candidly on his social media, Burale addressed both men and women with heartfelt urgency, urging couples to safeguard love by setting boundaries, nurturing respect, and striking balance. His words carried both wisdom and vulnerability.
To Women:
Burale warned against casually declaring a male friend as a “best friend,” calling it a spark for unseen conflict.
“Never make the mistake of telling your man your best friend is a man,” he said. Beyond friendship, he urged women not to elevate another man’s voice over their partner’s — a move that can silently erode love.
“If you elevate another man’s voice above your man’s, he may be there physically… but his heart has left long ago,” he cautioned.
To Men:
Burale challenged men to be attentive and fair, calling out the blindness that often plagues relationships. “It is criminal to notice your colleague’s new hairdo, but ignore your partner’s,” he said.
His plea was simple yet profound: “Meet halfway, nurture your bond, complement each other, and truly enjoy your relationship.”
Reflections on His Own Marriage:
In a rare moment of vulnerability, Burale reflected on his marriage to Rosina Mwakideu, describing her as a woman of faith, love, and grace.
He admitted mistakes on his part, but placed the end of their union on one cause: allowing too many external voices to dictate their private lives. “Our biggest mistake was letting others interfere in our marriage,” he confessed.
Burale’s heartfelt advice — blending wisdom, personal truth, and caution — has ignited fierce debate online. Some praise his openness, others question his views on friendship and trust.
One thing is clear: his words are a challenge to every couple to protect love from outside noise.
