Media personality Azeezah Hashim is turning traditional dating norms on their head, encouraging women to take the lead in pampering their partners during National Take a Man on a Date Month this September.
Speaking on a local radio station, Hashim emphasized that the celebration is about flipping the script, giving women the freedom to plan dates, shower their men with attention, and remind men that they, too, deserve to be cherished.
“Men, September is your month! And ladies, don’t hold back—take your men out, spoil them, and show your love. This is about reversing old norms and celebrating the bond you share,” she said.
Though single herself, Hashim acknowledged her own situation, urging women in relationships to embrace the joy of giving without guilt.
Azeezah also encouraged those without partners to enjoy the celebration by observing and learning from couples, keeping the spirit light, inclusive, and fun.
“Take your lovers out, plan something special, and keep the fire alive. Men are the prize in a relationship, and this is your chance to show it. Ladies, the field is yours!” Hashim added.
Originating in 2014 and gaining popularity on social media, National Take a Man on a Date Month has become a playful yet powerful movement advocating gender equality in dating, giving women the reins to express love and appreciation in bold, thoughtful ways.
September: Take a Man on a Date Month
September has earned a special place in the hearts of men everywhere, celebrated as the unofficial “Take a Man on a Date Month.” It’s a time when men are pampered, appreciated, and reminded that their joy and happiness matter just as much in relationships.
The Origins of a Celebration of Take a Man on a Date Month
The idea first surfaced on social media, particularly Twitter, around September 2014. While some say men started it to encourage women to plan dates, the movement has grown to highlight a deeper truth: relationships are a two-way street, and men deserve to be cherished too.
Why September Matters
This month is about flipping traditional norms, giving women the chance to express their love boldly and intentionally.
It encourages men to feel valued, while offering women an opportunity to plan thoughtful, heartfelt experiences.
Beyond romance, it’s a moment to appreciate fathers, brothers, friends, and male mentors—any man who has made a difference in your life.
Crafting the Perfect Date
To make the day unforgettable:
- Formal invitation: Ask him on a date with intent.
- Personalized planning: Focus on his interests, favorite spots, and hobbies.
- Exclusive experience: It’s about the two of you; group events don’t count.
- Role reversal fun: Surprise him by taking the lead in planning or pampering.
- Cover the bill: Let him relax and enjoy without worry.
- Genuine appreciation: Make clear the date is about celebrating him.
- Intimacy matters: Emotional and physical closeness—holding hands, a first kiss, dancing, or a massage—enhances connection.
Date Ideas to Inspire
- Hit his favorite sports bar, or enjoy activities like dancing, a gun range, wine tasting, or horseback riding.
- Go shopping together for something he’s been eyeing.
- Plan a weekend getaway or staycation to escape routine.
- Arrange a couples’ photoshoot or a romantic picnic.
- Enjoy a cozy night in with his favorite meal and a movie.
- Treat him to a spa or self-care day, even at home.
September isn’t just a month—it’s a movement to celebrate men, reverse dating norms, and deepen connections. It’s a reminder that men, too, deserve to be appreciated, spoiled, and loved.
